They say that honesty is the best policy, well i can assure in the long run for men specifically in the context of Women it is quite true. Women crave honesty from men. What does being honest means?
It means not misrepresenting yourself, honesty with women means letting her know what she is getting into with you. Honesty requires men to place all their cards on the table so that she can make a reasonable choice for herself and be responsible for her own actions. Being honest and not misrepresenting will avoid women to feel used. Being honest means being vulnerable and also show the parts of yourself that you would not like to be seen. How does honesty help for men in the long run?
In the process of turning completely yourself honest with women, you men will lose few battles, there will be few heartbreaks, also sadness and pain of women going away as you are not the one for the woman currently. But in the long as men imbibes in them the honest approach to women it will make men non-needy as there will a sense of peace in them. Men will be able to align themselves with women who are comfortable with the idea of who you are, in essence it means men will able to filter automatically the right women for them. Let me illustrate everything i wrote with an example.
There is a man who is on journey to explore the universe of women and he has immense love for women. He knows that being some women exclusive boyfriend or future husband is not congruent with his commitment to explore women. Now this man meets a woman at a coffeeshop and there is instant chemistry and connection with that woman. During the conversation the woman mentions to him that she just broke up with her boyfriend and is looking for a stable and steady relationship with a man. This man who is honest and loves women will not misrepresent himself and will speak his truth of him being non exclusive with women and his agendas will be laid on table even at the cost of losing the woman. He will let the woman know that he is not forever man. For this man his commitment to be truthful to women is bigger than any woman. He knows that the woman he met and with whom he can have pleasant times might drift away after speaking his truth.
Women crave for men who comes out in the open with their original costume. Let women know what they are getting into with men.
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