I’ll come straight to the point.
- Women are very good at pretending to be enjoying
- Women are excellent at pretending to be offended
1. Women are very good at pretending to be enjoying:
This must have happen to many men including me, a man and a woman are having a fun conversation, the woman seems to be laughing a lot and then suddenly her friend arrives and she leaves with the friend or she suddenly says “i have to leave, it was lovely talking to you”. But she seemed to be enjoying the conversation, she was laughing and enjoying why she would leave suddenly? Well women have told me lot of times they pretend to enjoy but in actually in their head are wondering how to get out of this situation without being rude or impolite. Many times men don’t get this but most of times a man walks up to a woman and strike a conversation , she is laughing with her eyes not hook on to you or wavering around, she is pretending to be enjoying.
2. Women are excellent at pretending to be offended
OK this in general a good signal for men. Women don’t pretend to be offended with man they are not interested in some form. Women are masters at this. I am sure only few men are actually aware of it because very have experience this. This happens when a man says something bold something like ” You and me are going to have passionate secret affair”. Now women wants to see are you the same bold guy behind that statement. They will then pretend to be offended by replying “Excuse me, did you really said that?” or ” I didn’t like what you said just now” or ” I am not that kind of girl”. If the man flinch like,” Oh no i am just kidding” or “I didn’t mean it” trust me he is out. And on the other if the man stands his ground without changing his fun energy he is in.
I think women are subconsciously pretend to be offended to screen man and filter them out. While pretend to be enjoying is something women do it consciously.
Can any one share their experience on being receiving end or on pretending end…